black bedroom, yay or nay?

it’s no surprise that i’m drawn to all things black. my wardrobe is black. my kitchen is black. my doors are black. most home accessories i choose are black. it is what it is. i have no shame in my black game.

on that note, i’m thinking of painting our bedroom black. i really considered painting our tiny bathroom black two years ago but decided to hold off (still uncertain i made the right decision on that. i’m thinking of repainting that room too). i’ve briefly thought of painting the bedroom black on many occasions but usually write it off because i’m paralyzed by the fear of making the wrong decision. it’s just paint though, right? i also just realized that i never followed up on the bedroom after all the work i put into it in 2016. it looks quite different then it did the last time i showed you. for one, we have a real bed like real adults. and curtains!

do y’all know shavonda? because she is my favorite thing to have ever happened to instagram. she is a beautiful & hilarious human. ryan, blame her for my inspiration to paint the bedroom again. her living room is flat black & it gives me all of the feels. i heard a designer say once that if you’re room gets a lot of natural light, you can get away with any color on the walls. well, our tiny little bedroom has 4 good sized windows so i think that means that i have no rules. now i have to decide where to start & stop with the paint. i’m loving the floor to ceiling, trim to windows, all black look.

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what do y’all think? would you do it? would you dare to paint the entire room black or just the walls?

kitchen remodel inspiration

i have a plan. it started innocently enough. like most of them do, it started with reading a blog. blogs & podcasts, man. the amount of each that i consume on a daily basis is a little frightening. anyway, i've recently been back-reading jenny's blog & though her style doesn't line up with my own a lot of the times, i find a lot of inspiration in her projects. i came upon her laundry redo in 2013 & i've read many blogs over the years about the ardex concrete counter technique but i never gave it much thought since our counters aren't a smooth surface. for some reason i got the inkling to do a little more digging around for anyone that's tried it on tile & found this! so i'm hoping that over my christmas break our countertops will be getting a complete overhaul & we'll end up with beautiful concrete counters. our plan has always been to replace the counters & i think this might just solve that problem! all i know is that i personally HATE tile counters & i can't wait for them to be gone.

just like i did with my bedroom inspiration, i turned to pinterest to help hone in what it is that i really love in a kitchen's aesthetics. i wasn't surprised at all by the results. apparently, i prefer simple kitchens with white walls, two-tone cabinets, open shelving, light stone or wood counters and black details/accents.

sources: 1 / 2 / 3 / 4 / 5 / 6 / 7 / 8 / 9 / 10

one thing i've also noticed is that my favorite kitchens are small, one wall european style kitchens which work for me because i don't enjoy cooking & when i do, it's minimal. we don't require much kitchen cabinet space so my first thought has always been to take out our upper cabinets but my growing love for saving old homes has made me realize that i probably don't want to. enough of the character from our house has been destroyed over the years; i don't want to contribute.

if i look at these enough will it motivate me to start? other blogs i've read over the years have acted like repainting cabinets is no big deal but i think they have to be either lying or they did zero prep work. the dread of all the prepping is what's making me drag my feet on this one. please, people who have repainted their cabinets, exactly how much prep did you do? did you sand them all the way down to wood? did you just do a light sanding? did you just say fuck it & prime right over those bitches?

all i know is that i'm really ready to say goodbye to our tile counters & backsplash. i want to start the demo right NOOOOOOW.

 

rv dream

i came across the most beautiful home last week on instagram & what do you know, it's a rv! i had almost made my mind up on a tiny home until i saw this beaut!

ashley & her husband bought an old rv & completely renovated it. in fact, you wouldn't even notice it's a rv from certain angles! everyone go check out her blog & instagram while i drool.

honestly, this is my dream scenario. the more i looked at this, the more i realized how cost effectively you could do this to an rv which really sways me to rv > tiny home. class a and/or c rv's (the kind you drive) actually cost less than a lot of RVIA tiny home & with a tiny home you then also have to spend a fortune on a 1 ton truck to be able to tow the thing.

i need money to fall from the sky so i can vacation in each for a couple weeks at a time because right now..

rv:1     /    tiny home:0

going tiny

i'm nine weeks post spider bite & going a little crazy. i still don't have full mobility in my leg so house projects have still been on the back-burner. buuuuut i've got a new project crowding my head. you know when you get a crazy idea that you just can't shake? you know, like one that keeps you up late, then you dream about it, & then you wake up still thinking about it? that happens to other people right?

it all started about two weeks ago when we had a guy come out to look at our fence & roof because we desperately need new of both & are hoping our insurance throws us a bone. anyway, that's a whole other shit show. ryan got to talking to this guy about how our neighborhood is being snatched up right now by investors & buyers in general. we live in an old neighborhood that's definitely rough around the edges but a very popular district is down the road & i guess a lot of young people are buying/renting in the city right now. he started saying how he had no doubts that we could sell our house and make money on it as it is now. that's something we really didn't think was possible due to larger repairs it needs (i.e. piers being a big one). it really got us thinking about what's next for us & got us really excited. i immediately started researching what houses in our zip have been selling for & holy shit! he was right! that rabbit hole led down a week-long search for temporary housing which led to a bottomless pit of despair because humans are garbage & think my dogs are monsters. one day i'd love to be a property owner & only rent to people with "aggressive breeds". it's an impossible world for a renter with three dogs, two of which are considered "dangerous". we don't want to buy again. well, i take that back. we don't want to buy a permanent residence in the state of oklahoma again. it doesn't feel right when we don't know what area we want to live in. we don't even know what city or state we want to live in, not for a long enough period to take up another 30-year mortgage. so we went back to the drawing board & came to one conclusion: let's go mobile.

our 1,267 square foot house has felt way too big for quite some time now. i know that going tiny is not for everyone. i know that a lot of people are going to think it's stupid that we think we could live in <300 square feet with 3 dogs. i'm prepared for that judgment. what i will say to those people is, please come spend a week at my house & see how little square feet we use currently. (only, i don't really want you to stay with me. i don't have a guest room for a reason, remember?) i can tell you just how much space we really use. we use our small bathroom. we use our bed & a space on the wall for a tv. we use our living room to sit on our couch & we use our kitchen for the fridge & sink & sometimes to cook something. sometimes. that's really it.

i've spent the last two weeks researching rv & tiny house living. we've tossed around the idea of "one day" going small for the last couple of years. apparently, that day is a lot closer than we thought & we're ready unless someone has a super valid reason for why we're idiots...

 

there are pros & cons about each. class a or c rv's are more convenient, require less cost upfront & travel better. tiny homes are designed sturdier & more efficiently & can be customized a million ways to match your taste. but rv's are ugly as sin, look like plastic & they would require more money in the long run if we decided to redo the interior. tiny homes require you own a vehicle capable of towing one ($$$) & cost more to get an RVIA certified one so that we don't have to worry about finding places to park it. there are definitely things we'll really have to consider, finances being a big part of it, but for now, i'm enjoying some online tiny shopping & scouting out all the rv parks around town.

next step? cross our fingers that our insurance adjuster is having a really good day, sell our house & hit the road. easy right?